In the world today, it is not surprising to notice that people are ungrateful and unthankful, unfortunately this trait has gradually find its way into the marriage. When last did you thank your partner for their act of kindness? Do you thank your partner for fulfilling their roles in the family or you think is not necessary. There is a saying that if you thank someone for what he has done, he will do more. Apply this saying in your marriage only then will you know the power of thank you in your marriage .
Are you a man, do you thank your wife for all the domestic work she does in the house, especially this days that women have a job and still have to take care of the home. When she sweats it out in the kitchen cleaning, do you appreciate her hardwork or you feel she’s just doing her duty. What of after eating her meal do you always appreciate her effort in preparing the meal or you just feel well that is the reason I married her. You must learn to be thankful and appreciate your spouse effort, never take it for granted. Are you the kind of partner that when your wife is in the kitchen preparing meal you are in the sitting room watching football and when the food is served the only appreciation you can show its to complain about the food. If you must complain first of all appreciate the effort put in preparing the food and then lovingly make your point with getting across as being unthankful .Are you thankful when your wife supports you financially? The economy situation of today has made it difficult for the man to take care of the family finances alone, so you must always be grateful to your wife for taking up a job to support the family. Always be grateful to her.
When last did you appreciate or thank your husband for providing for the family, even if you contribute to what he brings, you still need to appreciate him, do you know there are men who are not taking care of their family, hence you need to be thankful to him for performing his duty. Are you the type that keeps nagging that he contributes little to the family or proud because you earn more that him, please humble yourself and be thankful to him for his little contribution only then will he be moved to do more. When you and your spouse learn to say “thank you” to each other for the roles you play in each other life , only then will you know that “thank you” is not just a word but a powerful word that leads to successful marital life .