In life there are certain things you should never do regardless of your situation. The list is exhaustive but for the purpose of this article i will mention only 10.
1.AVOID EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR
Yes! By all means avoid extra marital affair in your marriage. It poses a danger to both you and your family. It destroys the happiness in your home and breaks the trust and bond between you and your spouse. Worst still if you later regret your action, you can never undo it.
2. IGNORE YOUR FAMILY AND MAKE YOUR JOB YOUR PIORITY
There is no doubt that finance plays an important role in the family and you need to work to make money but you need to draw a line between making money and your family. One has more piority over the other.
Making your job your top most piority to the detriment of your family is a big NO NO! That is misplaced piority. Remember that your job might not be there forever but your family will. Family comes first, so never make your family a second piority in your life.
3. SEND NUDE PICTURES OF YOURSELF
Unfortunately, we are living in a time when sending nude picture is seen as normal, infact it has become a trend this days to send nude picture.
Unless you really dont care, i mean extremely don’t care about who gets to see your nude picture (as it can end up not being only the intended recipient that gets to see it ) then you can go ahead.
Furthermore, You might feel okay with the idea of sending your nude picture now but are you sure you will still feel same way in the future. What then happens in the future when you feel disgusted by that idea, will you be able to retrieve the pictures you’ve already sent? Definitely No!
4. NEVER DO DRUGS
Seriously this should be a no brainer but unfortunately people still do drugs. Using hard drugs would never do you any good! Read after me- Hard Drugs will ruin your life. Avoid it by all means, whatever pleasure it gives you at the moment its temporary as it will definitely ruin your life and turn you to a cracked head.
5. HAVE UNPROTECTED S*X
I really don’t understand why people still do this. Abstinence was preached to you, you said No. Now you still want to do it and yet without protection? Please think again! Except you are married and you are sure your partner is 100% faithful, dearest friend you have no business doing it without protection.
6. DON’T HURT ANYONE PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY
We live in a world where there is so much hate. People are agressive, racist and saddist who derive pleasure in hurting others to boost their self ego. Avoid this by all means! Never hurt anyone either physically or emotionally just for the pleasure of doing it.
Learn to have self restraint, there can never be any justification for hurting another person.
7. LACK OF APPRECIATION
I see this a lot this days. People lack appreciation. An ordinary “thank you” for a kind gesture towards them it’s so difficult to say.
Regardless of how little the act of kindness you received, whether unsolicited or solicited always show appreciation, it goes a long way.
Don’t just show appreciation but genuinely show appreciation. A mere thank you can do more than you think. Never again be found wanting in this area.
8.LIVE YOUR LIFE TO PLEASE PEOPLE
Often time people are always disturbed by the perception of people about them that they fail to live their life and enjoy it.
The truth is regardless of what you do people will always have their own perception and opinion which most times you can hardly change, so why stress yourself over that.
Do what is right and best for you and your family and in as much as you don’t hurt anyone or sin against God in the process bother less of what people may think.
You have but one life, so go ahead and enjoy it without letting people hold you down.
9. LACK OF A SECOND PLAN IN LIFE
Some people call this plan B, never ever have just one plan in your life. Always have alternatives which you plan ahead of time incase plan A fails.
Infact it is better not just to have plan B but for plan B to already be in motion. A lot of big brands are diversifying, they don’t just depend on one product.
For instance Facebook acquired Instagram, WhatsApp and even dive into hardware by producing Facebook Portal. Hence, never just depend on one means of livelihood. Have plan B,C,D and put then all in motion.
10. PROFESSING NEGATIVITY INTO YOUR LIFE
Have you heard the saying “Their is power in the word” This saying is very true. Most times people fail to understand that what ever you sow onto yourself with your words that is what you will reap.
What you say to yourself matters a lot. If you say positive things to yourself, positive things will come your way because you are optmistic and would work hard to make it happen.
If you are always having negative thoughts, speaking negative words to yourself , it will be difficult to forge ahead and get that big break you are looking for.
Avoid all these 10 lifestyle i mention above and your life will be better for it. Let me know in the comment section other things you think people should avoid in their life.