Marriage surely has its up and down but there are little things which you and your partner can do to spice up your marriage. Sometimes the little thing you ignore in your marriage can really make a big difference in your marital relationship. One of such things is Hug, when last did you have a long hug with your partner? It may seems unnecessary and may not seems as a big deal to you but the truth is that it can really make a difference in your marriage.
When you newly got married, you must have enjoyed hugging your partner but years down the lane, the zeal to do it might no longer be there due to distractions and added responsibility you have to handle in the marriage. Having a long hug with your partner provides a quiet moment for both of you to decompress with each other. It bonds you both together.
You can make it a daily routine to have a long hug with your partner in the morning before you both leave for work or when you come back from work. Do not rush over the hug, relax and enjoy the quiet moment with your spouse. As you hug you can whisper lovely words into each other’s ear to make it romantic. Making sure you don’t miss having a long hug daily with your partner means you will bond daily with your spouse regardless of the distractions you both face daily.
When this becomes a daily routine between you and your partner, it makes it easier to know when your partner is facing any challenge as you will notice a change in his mood during the hug, so it’s also a way to keep track of your partner’s mood and act fast when you notice your partner is troubled. The best way to hug your partner is for your partner to raise his hands up while you stand with your arms out, then you fall into each other with a long lovely hug. Try it everyday in your marriage if you are not already practicing it in your marriage and see the Big difference it will make in your marriage and how it will also spice your marriage.
Thanks for this post, honestly I hardly hug my husband o, it is not in me at all but I will try it out
I just tried hugging my husband after reading this , he was surprised, he said what’s the occasion I can’t help but to start laughing. He is not used to it, so I showed him this article and we both started laughing as we practiced hugging each other. Thanks you MRW
My husband doesn’t allow me to hug him when he comes back from work and I feel it’s because I might smell a woman’s fragrance if he has been with someone else.
For years I have tried this hugging thing with my wife but she wouldn’t bulge so I just decided to let her be. If she changes her mind in the future which I doubt no problem
Because I am used to hugging my wife a lot, one day I extended it to my girl and when I got home my wife smelled it as we hug, she never forgave me till today. Now no more hugging o.
I noticed that hugging is also for the children , when I hug my kids it reassures them of my love for them, same for my wife. Hugging it’s good for everyone in the family
Nice post
I have a an identical twin brother , one day he decided to play a fast one on my girlfriend, he visited her but usually because I must hug my girlfriend no matter what , so when he got there and did not hug her upon seeing her , she immediately knew it was my twin ,so she just told him his trick has failed and he was surprised how she immediately knew it wasn’t me. Though they all laughed about it but I and my girlfriend knew our secret hug. Thank you hug.
Before I leave for work every morning I make sure I hug my wife, it has become a norm for us and it helps us bond better.
My boss always wants to hug me, I really don’t get it. Any time he tries hugging me , I hug him sideway. Am sure he wants to tap current which I wouldn’t allow him to
My boyfriend has a terrible body odour, I got him Roll on but he refuses to use it. I don’t know how to tell him about it and yet he likes to hug me all the time. When ever he hugs me I just hold my breathe. It’s like minutes of punishment . I really don’t know how to tell him without hurting his feelings because I love him
Anytime my sister in law comes to our house , she hugs every one including me but I always feel so uncomfortable whenever she hugs, I have mentioned this to my wife but she told me there is nothing to worry about that she knows her sister very well that it is just an innocent hug but honestly I am still uncomfortable with her hugging me so dearly
My girlfriend likes hugging all my friends and this really puts me off, anytime I complain about it we end up quarreling and she tells me she sees nothing wrong with it . She says if I don’t trust her let end the relationship but I love her so much so I just try to overlook it.
Hugging my wife have cost me so much pain, so I have decided to stop
I have stopped hugging my hubby because hugging him always leads to the bedroom
Anytime I want to know if my partner is telling the truth, I hug him affectionately and look straight into his eyes.
I love hugging my wife
I believe hugging is meant for someone close to you so I don’t understand why someone not close to me will want to hug me . So annoying
There is this guy in my office , he always wants to hug me, I don’t get it , what do I call such
I need a hug please who is available
My husband hugging me is the best thing I like about him