Marriage is a life long journey, it is not a journey that one can jump in and jump out , hence it is imperative that before you accept a marriage proposal you should weigh your decisions and be sure you are ready to spend the rest of your life with that person. Proposing to someone does not mean that individual must accept your proposal. Proposal should never be a do or die affair. If your proposal is turned down that should not lead to bad blood between you and the person, take it in good fate and move on, it is not the end of the world. It is better for your proposal to be rejected than for your marriage to end even before it starts. Do not allow your proposal to be accepted out of pity, forcefully or otherwise because a marriage built on proposal accepted out of pity, obligation or forcefully might end up collapsing.
According to Vanguardngrnews this Man killed his girlfriend because she rejected his proposal, can you imagine that!! Read the full story below;
An Ilorin Magistrates’ Court on Thursday remanded a 35-year-old school teacher, David Ogundele, in prison custody for allegedly stabbing his girlfriend, Tosin Ashinwo, to death. Ogundele is standing trial for culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Penal Code. The Magistrate, Mrs Mercy Adebola, ordered that the accused be remanded at the Madalla Prison, Ilorin, and adjourned the case to June 6 for further mention.
Prosecutor Abideen Oderinde had told the court that the accused stabbed the deceased and her mother, Abiola Âshinwo, following their refusal to his proposal of marriage to Tosin. Oderinde said the late Tosin and her mother refused to accept the proposal because Ogundele was a married man. He said that apparently infuriated by the refusal, the accused ran into the kitchen, picked a knife and stabbed Tosin to death. “The suspect also stabbed the mother of the deceased several times on the body and she subsequently lost consciousness. “She is receiving treatment at the University of Ilorin Teaching Hospital (UITH), but her survival is not certain,’’ the prosecutor said.
What is this? This is pure madness . Haba just for refusal to marry
This man should not go Scort free , what sort of nonsense is this
This must be a were man, abi how I no want to marry come become death sentence. Oniranu buruku
Honestly people cause problem for themselves, what was the girl looking for with a married man, she wants to eat and clean mouth and the man say lailai it will not happen. See where greediness has lead them to.
Who knows perhaps the girl and her mother has been extorting a lot of money from the man under the pretense that she will marry the man, only for them to say no after the whole investment. It can be painful but the man shouldn’t have taken it this far
This man must be a psycho otherwise why would he commit murder because of ordinary refusing of proposal
This is the height of colomental, nawa o things dey happen o
Just see how this man render his life useless because of marriage. Why can’t people be sensible
Opari! What do we call this, is it madness or stupidity, how would you stab a girl and her mother because a girl don’t want to marry him, had girl finish in the world . What a shame
Orishiri, something must really be wrong with the man, na so the thing pain nam. Ode jatijati, he should be allowed to go free
But why would the girl refuse marriage after chopping the man’s money, doesn’t she know she can’t eat her cake and have it. This is a lesson for all you women out there following married men, deceiving and chopping their money, it may not end well. Married men face your wife and stop causing problem for yourself.
This man is married so why is a marriage refusal this painful to him , I don’t understand
Why was the lady dating him in the first place when she knows he is married, it is when the man wants marriage she now realizes he is a married man
Super story , this is what of lack of self control can cause. The lady lacked it and so she was fornicating with a married man, the man lacked it and commited murder. A lesson for all
Any relationship built on a faulty foundation can never stand, this is exactly the case here
What a beautiful shame parents allowing their children to indulge in rubbish, see the result now
Poor girl and her mum. This man should have had a forgiven spirit
Why would he kill her , if he really loves her. It’s obvious the man doesn’t even love the girl
What a world , things are really happening. Things people do in moments of anger. Am sure the man will be filled with regret now
This is pure wickedness, not only did he kill the girl but also wants to kill the mother . What a wicked world
They should have the mans head examined because this is abnormal
Why do people like taking revenge by themselves, see where it had landed him
Why is it people don’t value human life, a life you can not create but yet you find it easy to take. May Gid forgive him
This is a very sad story
That guy should have moved on instead of putting himself in this mess
I hope other men like him will learn from this
Such a pathetic story
Ladies of today wants a mugu that they will chop and leave but the man had refused to be used as mugu
The mother should have adviced her daughter to stop dating a married man, see the result now
This man must have mental issues o
Wonders will never end