Marriage is both a source of joy and tribulation. Every couple is faced with one challenge or the other in their marriage. How you handle the challenge in your marriage will determine the success of your marriage . Sometimes the challenge you may have to face in your marriage, might be your spouse. Does he or she have emotional outburst, is unable to control its emotions in a difficult situation or exhibits destructive emotions under some circumstances ? How best can you manage your partners destructive emotions in order for your marital relationship not to deteriorate?
Destructive emotions is like “a city broken through without a wall”, destructive emotions such as rage or immoral lust will cause damage that takes years to repair, if it can be repaired at all. If you and your marriage mate must enjoy a happy marriage, you both must learn to have self control. Self control will help you deal more calmly with provocations and difficult situations. It will also help you to avoid marital immorality, violence and alcoholism .
Though it may be difficult to have a full control over your imperfect flesh but by diligently working to achieve this quality and associating with fellow couples who manifest self control in their way of life , would make it easy for you to achieve this.Self control will help you deal with an emotionally destructive mate calmly no matter the provocations or difficult situations. You must also help your partner to learn and exhibit self control by so doing you will be able to turn the tribulation in your marriage to a source of joy and enjoy a happy marriage.