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People get into romantic relationship with beautiful and great expectations from the relationship. They expect to be loved, get emotional support, become a better version if themselves. Unfortunately you might discover that your present relationship falls short of this and does not meet your expectations, worst still it might even be an abusive relationship what should you do?
If you are in a relationship that does not meet your expectations or you are not being treated the way you deserve then there is need for a honest talk between you and your partner. Most times the reason why relationship falls short of expectations is that most people get into a relationship without setting rules for their relationship. They leave things to chance expecting that their partner would know how to behave or how to treat them which most times is hardly the case.
Hence, if your relationship doesn’t meet your expectations have a honest discussion with your partner and set rules to guide your relationship so that each of you know what is expected of you in the relationship but if the issue in your relationship has to do with physical or emotional abuse, if you are not yet married immediately put an end to that relationship. Do not spend a second in that relationship as it is not healthy for you.
Regardless of what your partner tells you, no matter how much love your partner profess for you or makes promise to change, I tell you run for your dear life now that you are still alive. Don’t give an abusive partner a seconds of your life! What of if you are married what should you do?
A lot of people do not realise that separation is allowed in marriage especially for the very religious people. Yes the bible permits couples to separate if the life of one of the partner is at risk. Hence, if you are in abusive marriage separate from your partner as quick as possible and ensure your partner gets help.
The truth is that most people that are abusive have a deeper problem. There is an underlying problem that causes it which needs to be handled. So while you separate from the abusive partner, talk to people and help your partner get help. Remember that the separation is not a license to sleep around because you both are still married and divorce isn’t an option except adultery is involved. So ensure that during the separation your spouse get professional help so that you both can reunite in no time.
However, do not make the mistake of staying with an abusive partner while seeking for help for the person because you are only putting your life at risk. Leave an abusive marriage immediately and only reunite when your partner has received help and has made the necessary change in his or her life.
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