Marriage is a union of two people who place a high value on each other and who also wants to spend their lives together forever. Obviously no one would like to spend their time with someone who cares less about them much more spend a lifetime with that person. Hence, to make your union enjoyable and make your partner look forward to each day of spending their life with you, you need to show in words and action that he or she is topmost in your life.
Some marriages have crumbled because at a point in the marriage, one of the partner felt neglected and felt valueless in the marriage. You must always make your partner see that he or she is topmost in your mind, make your partner your number one piority everything else comes second. Give your partner the attention he or she deserve, carry your partner along in what ever decision you take, never sideline your spouse even if you know he had little or no contribution to make to your decision. No one would want to spend their life with someone who treats him or her like a doormat or a second fiddle.
Always let your partner see that he or she is your topmost piority, show more affection and care, never allow your self to be consumed in your work to the extent that you place your job above your spouse’s interest. Never assume that you know what your partner wants, always communicate daily to find out his or her needs and fulfil this needs efficiently.
Are you starving your spouse of emotional needs? or are you the type that feels you know it all and hence need not to consult with your spouse before taking a decision?Remember that a spouse left all by him or herself or feels neglected may seek for care and attention outside the marriage, which of course means trouble for the marriage. What if your career takes all your time and leaves you with barely no time to spend with your spouse? If that’s the case you definitely need to evaluate your job and be sure the job suits your present marital status.
When your partner knows he or she is your topmost piority, your partner would value your relationship , treat you well and accord you the respect you deserve, not only would he treat you well but he would also cherish your relationship and treat you Special. It is your partner’s right to be treated as your first piority. Pamper him or her and go all the way out to show them that you value them, only then will you make it easy for your spouse to reciprocate the love ,affection and attention you’ve shown to him.