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A friend called me up some days ago telling me about the recent happenings in her home. She said that lately her husband has been acting strangely and relating with her as a mere stranger. She said this bothers her most especially because their anniversary was just by the corner. According to her she feels her man is having an affair or why the drastic change and the cold attitude towards her.
Are you going through the same situation in your marriage? Well, these are the few words of advice I gave her which you can also apply in your home. First and foremost you need to have a heart to heart talk with your partner, I always recommend this for couples because your partner may not even be aware of his attitude or action until you call his attention to it. If your partner is too busy and you can barely have time to dialogue which I really find weird, then you can send your partner a detailed text or email expressing your feelings. The bottom line is that your partner must be aware of the situation and the onus lies on you to convey this to him.
Secondly purge out the idea of infidelity from your mind, as having such an idea can be detrimental to your marriage . I want you to realize that even stress can change your partner’s attitude, each person has their own way of reacting to stress, he may be going through a difficult situation at work and he might not want to share it with you to avoid you getting worked up. Hence, you should try and be more friendly and affectionate towards him, ask him questions about his work, try to probe a little further to find out if there is any problem.
Lack of sufficient money can also change your partner’s attitude, if his or her business is not going as expected, and all the struggle to make ends meet becomes futile, this can cause frustration and change of attitude. Try not to bring up money issues or unnecessarily make a demand.Avoid it as much as you can and finally commit everything into prayers so that the originator of marriage can make every thing right again in your marriage.
Exactly what happened to me, my boyfriend started behaving funny and I thought he wanted to quit, unknown to me he was having some financial challenge while I was demand for money from him, it was his friends who later told me. So I now used to style to give him money which he later payed me back. After that our relationship became normal again.
When I don’t have money my wife always know because I become extraordinarily quiet at home and get easily angry. Once I start like that my wife would tease me that I am in my moneying mood. Most us of men don’t always like to admit we are broke and it kind of affects our ego
I don’t believe it always has to do with money and stress. When my husband started nagging about everything I do, infact started behaving funny. I traced it to a young girl he just met who has completely taken over his mind. I tried talking to him, no way. Until he later learnt the hard way when the girl’s boyfriend and his gang gave him the beating of his life.
Marriage takes the grace of God. Hence I commit my family to his care daily
My husband is the quiet type he hardly talks, starting a conversation with him is like a dead end so this makes it difficult to know when there is so
Etching wrong with him.
I get scared of marriage when I read things like this