It is always very easy to list the qualities you want in a mate, however, what about your own qualities? Have you examined yourself to see if you have the qualities that will make you a good husband or wife.
Do you freely admit your mistakes and accept advice or are you always defensive when corrected? Are you generally cheerful and optimistic or do you tend to be gloomy , frequently complaining? Remember, marriage will not change your personality. If you are proud , over sensitive or overly pessimistic when single , you will be the same when married.
Since it’s difficult to see ourselves the way others see us, it’s advisable to ask a parent or a trusted friend to tell you sincerely what they think about you, after getting this frank comments and suggestion , you learn to make the necessary changes that could be made, even though these might be difficult but you must work on these before taking steps to marry so you can be a blessing to your partner.