Does Someone Who Constantly Cheat On You Love You?

Are you in a relationship where your partner constantly cheats on you and you feel helpless or in your heart you are even making excuses for the person because you love him or her?

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The truth is that when someone constantly cheats on you that person doesn’t love you and appreciate you and there is no need making excuses for the person because in the long run you’ll only hurt yourself.

If the person doesn’t love you enough to be faithful please let the person go! Yes it may be difficult, it might hurt you and cause you emotional pain but later in life you’ll be thankful that you took that decision of letting the person go.

The more you stick around such a person, you’ll only be taken for granted because the cheater will believe well I can always cheat and have my way and then you become a second fiddle to be played with.

Another thing you should realize is that apart from the fact that the cheater doesn’t love you the cheater is only sticking around you for the other benefits he or she gets from you. That’s the more reason you should cut that person off as you are just a tool being used to the cheaters benefit.

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If you must still stay in that relationship then there should be a honest and blunt discussion where you state how you want to be treated in the relationship. Remember that this discussion is not to beg the cheater to stay but to set the rules if the cheater wants to continue the relationship.

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Never allow yourself to be treated less because you deserve only the best. If the cheater can not step up and change his or her ways then let the person step down so you can find someone else who would treat you exactly the way you deserve.