Should House Help Bathe Your Kids

The struggle to make ends meet have made most moms to work outside the home to support their husband. In doing this some have neglected their roles and unknowing to them bestowed their motherly roles on their househelp. There is nothing wrong in being a working class mom, I have been there but I must confess that sometimes I wish I could turn back the hands of time.

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We know the economy is hard and we must strive to provide the best for our kids,and as such you need a house help in the house while you are out to work. Really there is nothing wrong with that but you must know the limit to which you allow your house help take care of your children. Afterall it is these children you are working for ,so why not make out more time for them and limit your House Help’s care towards them.

One of those limitations is bathing! Yeah! Sometimes it can really be difficult to bathe the kids in the morning especially if you have to leave home early to work but my personal advice is know how to work it out and be the one to bathe your kids. Some of this house helps goes as far as playing with the children’s private part while bathing them and the innocent child sometimes doesnt Know or even begins to enjoy it.

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Your child’s body should not be exposed to a total stranger in the name of a House Help in your home, this is wrong.  At a seminar I attended at my child’s school ,the speaker told us about a family that  the house help always fingers the girl while bathing her,one day when her mum decided to bathe her, the girl innocently  told her mum she was not bathing her properly the way their House Help does,so her mom asked her so what didn’t I do ,the little girl Now said mom you didn’t wash my private part with your fingers, aunt ( the House Help ) always puts her hand deep inside and start washing! Her mom almost fainted and this has been going on for so long. Can you imagine that !

Stop exposing your child’s body to the stranger (House Help ) in your house. Make out time,it only takes good planing and bathe your kids yourself no matter how tight your schedule is.