There is a need for you as a parent to be alert at all times,do not get carried away by the pursuit of money. Create quality time for your children,always know what is going on in their life by communicating regularly with them. It is not enough to get them Tablet, PlayStation Nintendo and so forth. Money has its place, so do quality time for your children.
Do You ask your children every day what happened in school? Or they are already asleep by the time you are back from work and you get to see each other only during weekends. This shouldn’t be! Your children are your primary assignment, don’t you know they are precious gift from God? You must treat them with care,love and attention. They deserve it because they are your future investment and so you can toil with them.
Always find out from your kids how their teachers interact with them. Today the world is full of evil vices and even school teachers are not left out. We’ve heard issue of s3xual assault ,physical and verbal abuse from teachers. I will be looking at physical and verbal abuse from teachers in this writeup.It comes as a shock and great disappointment that an individual that should be molding your child is the same person abusing the child. Some teachers are fond of using abusive speech to their students especially when they are upset with the student while some physical abuse their student by constantly punishing or flocking the child for no just cause.
If you do not communicate regularly with your child how would you know if your child is being abused by the teacher. When your child complains do not sweep the complain under the carpet with the fear that you don’t want your child to be victimized by the teacher. No that is definitely wrong as your lack of action would signal a wrong message to your child. Address the issue maturedly and calmly by getting intouch with the teacher or the head of school.
I remembered when my first Son was two years old,he was a young smart boy,very smart for his age! He reported that his teacher was always flogging him,can you imagine that! Just 2years. I called the teacher and told him about what my son said and she quickly denied it,she asked to speak to my son hoping her voice will scare him and probably he would not be able to confirm the story. I gave the phone to my 2years old son and the teacher asked him is it true you told your mom I flog all the time,when was that ?and my son started narrating all the time she has flogged him and the teacher was in shock! I could feel her shock when I collected the phone from my son and got back on the phone with her! She was shocked my son knew all she has been doing there and then she started pleading and apologizing,this was someone who was initially denying it. That was the last time she ever did that and after that term I withdrew my son from the school .
You must take action otherwise the abuse will never stop and this might soon start affecting your child negatively. You must address the issue with the teacher or report the abuse to the school depending on the type and extent of the abuse.