In our day many men and women live together as husband and wife without any legal commitment.In some instances the union may be approved by community or tribal custom, however, the proper thing is to get your marriage registered before cohabiting with your partner. The truth is that most time when you have a live in relationships with your partner they may find it difficult to take the right step to legalize your union because just as the saying goes ” why buy a milk when I have the cow” Thus, the zeal will no longer be there for your partner to do the right.
Registering your marriage by making it legal is dignifying and brings peace of mind both to you and your unborn child.Today it had become a trend to have a child or children out of wedlock, Infact it has been modernised with the term Baby Mama(BM).Recreation is meant to be done within the confine of Marriage. In the olden days it was a taboo to have a child out of wedlock, those involved hide their face in shame while their family is being ridiculed. The increase in moral decadent in the society today as made it a fashionable trend and most young ladies are giving in to this. Why would anyone choose to bring reproach onto her self and her child rather than honour,a proper marriage brings honour to you and your partner.
Being a wife is honourable, it brings about a feeling of security as commitment is involved, it also brings peace of mind as the union is legal . Additionally it safeguards your property right and that of your child or children in the event of death of your mate. So why go for less when you can have much. By abstaining from sex till you are married and getting properly married by registering your marriage you can save yourself the headache of being a Baby Mama and you will experience the peace that comes from being legally married.