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In some culture you are allowed to choose whom you want to spend the rest of your life with while in other cultures a marriage partner is chosen by the parents or relatives. If it is allowed where you live for you to choose a marriage partner by yourself , how would you proceed and what are the important things you should look out for?
First of all before approaching your intending partner be sure that you are in a position to get married and actually have marriage intentions. It is very wrong to send the wrong signal to another person or play with another’s person’s emotion by raising false expectations .Haven checked yourself and you are sure of your intentions, the first step is to approach the person and let the person know your intentions, if the person is not interested in you do not try to force yourself on the person by continuously persisting to the extent that you get that person irritated. If the person gives you a positive response, you may arrange to spend some quality time with this person as this would give you an opportunity to see if marriage to this person would be wise. What should you look out for as you both get acquainted?
The first thing to look out for is if both of you are compatible. This is very important before you commit yourself. Both of you have different personality trait which is the reason to be sure you both are in tune with each other. You should make sure that both of you share a lot of interest together because in a truly succesful marriage the couple are good friends and enjoy each other’s company.
The second thing to look out for is the religion of your partner, do you both share the same faith or is it different? you have to be sure that you both seeks a common ground in this issue as some family have been torn apart due to differences in their way of worship. Please do not deceive yourself by thinking you can convert your partner to your way of worship, sometimes this backfires after marriage. So be sure to dot all the I’s and the T’s in this area before getting committed.
Thirdly be sure both of you have common interest, this does not literally mean you must share the same interest in everything but at least let the percentage of the common interest you share be more than those you don’t share. If you don’t share a lot of common interest it would be difficult to even sustain a close friendship more less marriage.
Lookout for the person’s character, of course by now you will have some qualities you are looking out for in a partner but be sure that the person is humble not proud and opinionated otherwise most of your discussions might end up as argument. Also be wary of a person who always want things done his or her own way, such a person is not ready to compromise and always demand or schemes to have his way. Remember that marriage is a long life commitment , so never rush into marriage, never allow pressure from friends and family make you jump into marriage without looking out for these points mentioned above. There is the saying that the patient dog eats the fattest bone, so take your time and study this person and be sure you can spend the rest of your life together before msking that commitment .
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