Imagine two musical instruments,perhaps a piano and guitar . If they are correctly tuned , either one can produce beautiful solo music . Yet what happens if these instruments are played together ? Now they must be in tune with each other. It is similar with you and a prospective mate . Each of you may have worked hard to tune your personality traits as individuals . But the question is are you in tune with each other? In other words are you compatible?
Hence, the importance of getting better acquainted with your prospective mate before marriage. Be as honest as you can be, do not be deceitful or hide your characters only for you to start displaying it after marriage. It is very cruel to play with another person’s emotions by raising false expectations. So spend time together in wholesome activities as this will give you an opportunity to see whether you are compatible and if marriage to this person would be wise.
It is when you are compatible you will be able to have a successful marriage.